It took me a long time to understand the relationship status, It’s complicated. Everyone once in a while I see it on someone’s facebook page and wonder what does that mean? Then I wonder why someone would even bother to advertise it. However, the older I get (I’m not old by any means) the more I begin to live in the gray area. Sometimes it’s just that. Complicated. And not necessarily because one party doesn’t want to commit and the other does, although that happens too, but sometimes you are in that in between stage. Maybe you are dating and have been dating for a little while but aren’t officially in a relationship. Or maybe you like to play psychological games with yourself because the idea of being in a relationship or having a boyfriend or girlfriend intimidates you, so you don’t put a title on “whatever that it is that we’re doing”. And that’s ok. Because at the end of the day it doesn’t matter that other people know exactly what your relationship status is, all that matters is how you and your partner feel for each other and that you are open and honest about those feelings.